What if?


#1

I suggest at least consulting an attorney, getting a separation agreement drawn up prior to moving out. It may take a couple of extra days but it could possibly affect things down the road. Even if your spouse will not sign the agreement, it does at least state your intentions to separate and make allowances for finacial and legal coverage for the marital assets and debts. This should keep the “abandment” issue out of the equation.
The decision to leave has already been made but you need to look at your future also. Not necessarily the next year but down the road. You say that you don’t want to take anything but you are entitled to 1/2 the marital assets. The best thing to do is to protect yourself now. In reading on this web site, there are a lot of things that people will agree to just to get out of a situation but two years later realize they can not live with what they have agreed to and legally they have no way out.
Consult an attorney…get a fair separation agreement in the works.


#2

You should consult with an attorney before deciding to move out. Generally, something can be worked out to allow you to move out, however, it is best to make sure you have protected yourself legally before doing so.

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#3

What are the legal ramifications if I just up and moved out of the house? I am not interested in taking anything at this point. I just want out! I make enough money to support myself. The problem being I know my spouse would be unable to afford our current living conditions.

I have talked to my spouse and my spouse is aware I am VERY unhappy in the relationship but is unwilling to allow me the option to separate. We have gone to counseling and I made myself perfectly clear that I am past the point of being able to fix the situation. However I have remained in the house and marriage due to financial reasons but the home life is just getting to be unbearable.

I feel lost and stuck in a situation I am unable to do anything about.

HELP!