My partner has been separated for 4 years. They’ve been working on the separation agreement for over a year but his ex keeps making demands. She was unemployed through most of their marriage, was fired from 2 jobs. She has made no effort to support herself. During the marriage my partner worked and did all the housework and cooking and caring for their 2 children. She contributed little to the family, instead spent large amounts of money on things like buying a pony without his consent. She has made statements to him that he needs to continue to be responsible for her.
She has demanded that he include the cost of health and car insurance for her in the spousal support until the youngest turns 18. Is that reasonable to expect him to pay for her car and health insurance after divorce? Does she have any obligation to get a job and do something to pay her own expenses? She keeps saying he should basically pay for everything she needs, including all living expenses. Does he have a legal obligation to do that?
Thank you for your time.