Wife in nursing home


#1

Dear dhpainenc:

Greetings. Yes, it is still possible for him to proceed with divorce in North Carolina, but it sounds as if his wife may have some capacity issues. So, here is what he would have to do:

Upon filing the action for divorce, he would also make a motion to appoint a guardian ad litem for his wife. This person would then act on his wife’s best interests in responding to the lawsuit. I would have to tell you that if I were appointed guardian ad litem for his wife, I would counterclaim with requests for equitable distribution and alimony…so he may be facing these claims also now. Thank you.

Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
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Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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Charlotte, North Carolina 28262
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#2

My friend and his wife were fixing to separte when she had a massive heart attack and 3 strokes. Now the wife is in long term care nursing. The husband still wants to look after to her but wants to prceed with his divorce. Under NC law this is not possible now is it?


#3

I think it’s diplomatic for the husband to still visit his wife in the facility regardless if the divorce takes place…It’s still a sign of respect and compassion to the spouse, and preserve the friendship even though they want to end the marriage…Here’s good website that the husband can use when dealing with long term care http://www.completelongtermcare.com


#4

Can he visit her and take care of her needs with the nursing home and wait for the year separation requirement?


#5

Yes, so long as he does not have the intention of resuming the martial relationship.