Thank you again step-mother.
The order that was signed last year stated that he has 4 weeks of visitation, and also a temp order.
I understand fully what your saying. His family is his family. I don’t have family near me for I live thousands of miles away. They are all the way on the west coast. I don’t hang out nor talk to the ppl who run to him. They just see him out and have to relay all things to my STBX. It’s like having a shadow behind you. I tend to stay home all the time because of it. I feel it is not safe for me to live my own house.
Well today I have gotten an email from him. He sent a picture of of myself and a dear friend of mine. It is a picture of us next to eachother that I had myself. He tried to make a threat about it. I laughed and said, “whatever”.
I do have a few questions:
I’m a stay at home parent. Bills are paid every month, food on the table all the time for the kids, clothes on their backs, etc. I did get a job in Aug of last year. I was paying 600.00 a month in daycare cost, gas back and forth. I had to take my paychecks including some child support to pay for daycare. I would bust my butt at work, then turn around and take my full paycheck to the sitter. Within a three month period I made 1,300. Three whole months. So, I actually didn’t make money working.
My question is this, his girlfriend he is with now, is a RN at a hospital. They are looking into her buying a house, with him moving in. She has a good job. He doesn’t work at all. I am heading back to college to finish my degree in May. Now, if she has a good job, a house that is bought, can he take custody of my son?
I rent my home and am going to be heading back to college with no job. How does that effect me?
Both of them have this whole thing planned out and that is why he won’t do the custody part with the divorce. His family is saying that he wants to get custody of our son when they have gotten the house. What are the changes?