Greetings. It sounds to me like you may be eligible for alimony from your wife. Alimony depends on a number of circumstances, but if at the time of separation she was helping to support you, you should be able to receive alimony from her.
Also, yes it sounds like you have an AoA claim against the first fellow and a CC claim against the second fellow. First, before you consider either of these claims, you need to come to financial terms with your spouse.
My advice is that you retain an attorney to negotiate with her for your alimony and property division. Best of luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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