"Blood Relative"


#1

It is possible that you could ask the court to modify this provision of the agreement, especially if there is no other reason to require that a relative be present for the exchanges.

Lisa M. Angel
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#2

When my exhusband and I agreed on the custody arrangments for our two boys I unfortunately agreed that a “blood relatives” would alway be present on the exchanges. I live in Tennessee, and my ex lives in North Carolina. We agreed to meet halfway, (2 1/2 - 3 hour drive one way) so we meet at the Kingston Exit, off Interstate 40.

Recently there have been times that a “blood relative” hasn’t been available to do the exchange. For example, I was sick last week and couldn’t take the boys, so my boyfriend took them. My ex has called and threaten me saying that my boyfriend is not allowed to deliver or pick up the boys.

My question is, if he were to take me back to court for contempt, would something like that stand up in court? I know it’s something we agreed upon, but at the time my ex wouldn’t agree to the custody arrangement unless I did.

Another thing…my ex hasn’t come to any of the exchanges since this was agreed upon one year ago. He always has his Mother, Sister, Aunt, or Cousin deliver the boys. My ex says he doesn’t come because he’s on Probation and can’t leave the State. I’ve checked with his Probation Officer and he said that my ex hasn’t been on probation for quite some time. However, I know his auto has been impounded by the Police due to two pending drug charges, and I think his license has been revolked. Eventhough he can’t drive and doesn’t have a car, he could still ride for the exchange.[?]