If your ex husband is a convicted sex offender it is unlikely that he will receive unsupervised visitation with your children. However, you need to make sure that you do not leave the children alone with him, ever for any amount of time, for any reason.
If you left them alone with him it places you in jeopardy of losing your children for failing to protect them.
Please do whatever it takes to ensure that you do not end up in a relationship with him again, doing so can place your custody of your children in jeopardy. You obviously recognize that it is not healthy and there are a lot of great counselors that can help you have the strength to stick to your convictions.
Helena M. Nevicosi
Attorney with Rosen Law Firm
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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Charlotte, NC 28262
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Chapel Hill, NC 27514
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