I have discovered on two very old laptops in our home that my brand-new husband (9/14/13) has long internet histories of viewing child porn (everything from “no-nudes” child sites --still very provocatively dressed and posed-- up to things far more graphic). Should I install a key logger on these computers and confront him myself? Is that illegal? Should I simply turn him in to police or local FBI? Can they somehow do surveillance on his internet activities covertly and catch him? I am quite worried to allow myself to be seen by him as “the whistleblower”, as he does have some darker connections to persons he could indeed deploy as ‘muscle’, or so he has told me a number of times. Upon capture/divorce, what would become of shared property such as our home???
I am tremendously ashamed of my foolishness–I have tried so hard to truly know who I came clear across the US to marry, but I have discovered something so dreadful after the fact. Please do offer whatever information you possibly can, and thank you very much.