I am heading to alimony court. I have proof of many affairs by husband…but my lawyer said I can actually contact these other women to see if they would be willing to testify against husband should I have to go that route. I am sure a few of them have no clue that he was even married so when I contact them I don’t really know how to handle the situation and I am afraid they may contact him and tell him what I am up to. Would this be a problem on my end? Is there a proper way to say hey…HE IS MARRIED!! I don’t want them to take offense about it but I do want all the help I can get to get my alimony.