My ex and I had initially agreed on joint custody and worked out a schedule which we both agreed on. Our schedule varies monthly due to my work schedule. I had sat down and went over a calendar and figured up that I would have our daughter about 50 more nights than he would over the course of a year. He has started threatening me to “fight it out in court” since I will not agree for my daughter, who is 2 years old, to go to school where he lives over an hour away. He was the one who walked out and left and after all my begging and pleading for him to stay close so we could avoid issues like this, he made the decision to move where he did. I even offered to move a little closer so she could go to school in between my work and his(due to my job I cannot move to where he is) but he still will not agree.
My question(s) are, I was diagnosed with depression after I had my daughter. I am sure if this goes to court this will be brought out. Can they subpoena all my medical records or just certain ones? Or will I have to fill out the information to which doctors I went to, because he doesn’t know which doctors I saw?
Also, since my schedule rotates and he works weekends neither of us were the “primary” parent. We pretty much split responsibilities down the middle. In terms of who has had her more, I have so far(which again depends on the month). Of course, he will say that he was the primary parent since while he was laid off a while back he did the caretaking.
I am just terrified of going to court because I don’t want all my past brought up. I don’t have a criminal record, nor any past drug use, but I do have some childhood issues which he knows about.