There is no timeline or deadline for condoning a spouse’s marital misconduct. Condonation is very fact-specific and varies from case to case.
You can initiate the negotiations of all marital issues by presenting your wife with a proposed separation agreement. This would show that you are not accepting of the affair and would show action versus inaction.
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