Hey Big Time,
As far as the rotation is concerned…We agreed to the terms of 50/50 custody in our separation agreement. It was offered by the ex’s legal counsel and I happily accepted…We’ve only been separated a month and a half so my son is 3…
He has rolled with the punches and adapted to the changes extremely well. Virtually NO noticeable affect on his behavior. I think these little ones are a lot more resilient than most give them credit for…He seems to be somewhat pleased that he has 2 of everything now…I often wonder about the long term effects on him but there’s no way to know…Each situation and child is different as is the parents…
Regarding motivation: Catch your wife having an affair…That’ll get ya’ movin toward separation and divorce real quick…Worked for me!..Seriously, Do what I wish I had done when I realized it just wasn’t working…and wasn’t going to…Obtain legal counsel and have them work out a lot of details and advise you,try to keep the whole thing out of court and hope that your spouse will handle this in a mature,responsible manner…C-ya-HST302.