Ex not complying with visitation

Document every single time that she does not allow you to take her for your visitation. Write down days and times and what she told you such as the excuse why you can’t have your visitation. My husband and I went through the same thing with his ex. It took 4 times of going back to court for violation of the court order, but the Judge finally had enough of her B.S. Good Luck! Remember document everything, its very important for court.

Dear kbcdjc:

Greetings. You need to file a Motion to Modify Custody and a Motion to Show Cause. Good luck.

Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Law Firm

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I have been divorced for 5 years now. in my divorce decree it states that i should visit with my daugter every other weekend. this went well for the first year and now if i see my daughter twice a year it too much my daughetr is now 11 but through te years i go and pick her up and my ex would say sh edoesn’t want to go with you i file a motion with the court but she still didn’t file i went to the nearest police station with court papers in hand and they told me they don’t get involved with that!! What else can i do!