[:(!]It’s upsetting that men and woman alike do not realize the pain that is placed on the other person when they cheat. Keep in mind that there are many levels of cheating. Don’t be fooled! It’s still cheating. Once the trust is broken you can not look at that person the same. A simple “honey, I’m going to be late coming home today”, can cause you to worry yourself until your sick. Time helps but does not erase the pain that only you have to live with everyday. Do you honestly think that the cheater is sitting there upset and worried. Once a cheater always a cheater. Don’t worry, eventually they even turn things around til you begin to blame yourself for their cheating and every argument somehow becomes your fault and your saying I’m sorry. Fool me once - shame on you, fool me twice - shame on me. Ask yourself this question … can I live the rest of my life and never let this affect my way of thinking, living, or way of treating my spouse? Your answer is what is truely in your heart and mind. I wish you the best in life.