Greetings. First, you should hire an attorney in your county of normal residence (most attorneys, such as us, can be hired while you are overseas) and have them send her a letter. They may want to file an equitable distribution claim for you with a motion for temporary restraining order.
You should also contact the district attorney and law enforcement in the county where she is doing this. Best of luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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