Me and wife have been staying in charlotte, nc since oct, 2013. We are indians and got married in india in dec,2011.
My wife activities were bit suspicious from past few months, so thought of recording audio clips when she goes to office.
Recently, got to know from audio clips that she is cheating on me. Everyday or every alternate days she meets other guy who is the employer of her.
latest recording was of 20th feb, 2016 where she has gone with him to get valentine gift (i.e. clothings worth of 500 dollars)
Now, I’m requesting her to separate out mutually. but she is not willing for that.
and I do not want to contest as this would tarnish their families image and ruin her career.
She says, she cannot give divorce. As per her, dying is more preferred than giving divorce.
I’m really tensed. I can not live with her anymore. and bit worried also if I pressurize her and she does something to her.
Kindly advise, how should I handle this situation.