Lawyers dragging it out


#1

I STRONGLY ENCOURAGE YOU TO GET A LAWYER BEFORE YOU GO OUT OF TOWN, THAT WAY YOUR LAWER CAN DELAY OR DO WHATS NECESSARY WHILE YOU ARE GONE, PLUS WHEN YOU GET A LAWYER ASK HER TO PAY FOR YOUR ATTORNEY FEES, I’M GOING THROUGH THE SAME THING, FROM THIS DAY FORWARD DOCUMENT EVERYTHING, STAY IN TOUCH WITH YOUR KIDS. SO YOU LEFT AND SHE KEPT THE KIDS,HUMM, REMEBER THIS, THE COURT DON’T JUDGE ON WHATS MORALLY RIGHT, IT DEALS WITH FACT AND WHAT THE LAW SAYS, SO DON’T TRY TO GO TO COURT TO PROVE SHE IS A UNFIT MOM UNLESS SHE ON DRUGS, BEAT KIDS ETC: SHES GOING TO TRY TO MAKE YOU LOOK LIKE THE WORST HUSBAND AND FATHER THAT YOU CAN IMAGINE. EXPECT TO PAY SOMETHING(TEMPORARY ORDERS) BUT WHEN EQUITABLE DISTRIBUTION TIME COMES THING SHOULD CHANGE, YOU NEED TO START CALCULATING ALL THE MARITAL BILLS THAT YOU HAD FROM THE TIME OF SEPERATION AND HOW MUCH YOU HAVE PAID VS HOW MUCH SHE HAS PAID AND EXPLAIN WHAT THEY WHERE FOR. DOCUMENT, DOCUMENT, DOCUMENT.


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#3

Dear Ron:

Do you not have an attorney? You could have asked for relief from the bankrutpcy court on the finances.

Go and see the information on divorce on our main website - and for all that is holy - HIRE AN ATTORNEY to help you with the pending litigation before you get hosed by this person!

Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Law Firm

4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
919.787.6668 main phone
919.256.1665 direct fax

10925 David Taylor Drive, Suite 100
Charlotte, North Carolina 28262
704.644.2831 main voice
704.307.4595 main fax

1829 East Franklin Street, Bldg 600
Chapel Hill, NC 27514
919.321.0780 main phone
919.787.6668 main fax

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The response posted above is based upon the limited factual information made available and is not intended as a full and complete response to the question. The only reliable manner to obtain complete and adequate legal advice is to consult with an attorney, fully explain your situation, and allow the attorney sufficient opportunity to research the applicable law and facts required to render an accurate opinion. The basic information provided above is intended as a public service but a full discussion with an attorney should be undertaken before taking any action.


#4

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#5

I hate it when people mess with the forum and waste my time.

Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Law Firm

4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
919.787.6668 main phone
919.256.1665 direct fax

10925 David Taylor Drive, Suite 100
Charlotte, North Carolina 28262
704.644.2831 main voice
704.307.4595 main fax

1829 East Franklin Street, Bldg 600
Chapel Hill, NC 27514
919.321.0780 main phone
919.787.6668 main fax

ROSEN.COM

The response posted above is based upon the limited factual information made available and is not intended as a full and complete response to the question. The only reliable manner to obtain complete and adequate legal advice is to consult with an attorney, fully explain your situation, and allow the attorney sufficient opportunity to research the applicable law and facts required to render an accurate opinion. The basic information provided above is intended as a public service but a full discussion with an attorney should be undertaken before taking any action.


#6

I have been separated for almost 3 years. My wife has consistently refused to sign a separation agreement. She stopped working, declared herself bankrupt so now I shoulder all of our marital debt, has custody of our two children for whom I have continued to pay support for even without the agreement, just of my own free will. Up until May (which is, coincidentally when I filed for divorce) she was fairly amicable. I have continued to cover her medical insurance, however since receiving the divorce summons she has turned into the wife from hell. She was no picnic before - I walked in on her “boyfriend” asleep at my kitchen table when she expected me to be at work, hence my leaving her. She calls my house in the early hours and hangs up, she called my girlfriends cell phone, pretending to look for me, she DEMANDS I give her money for her car repairs, when I already pay for all her living expenses and the kids clothes and school supplies. She has no idea where our oldest child school is. When he misses the school bus (which is frequent as she does nothing to make sure he is up in time) I get the phone call. I have to take him to the opposite side of town to where I work, which makes me late - please remember that she does not work.

Now she has gotten a lawyer and told him I don’t know what because I am being taken to court for child support, post-separation support, alimony, equitable distribution (we have no tangible property because she stopped paying the mortgage and the house was repossessed 9 months after we separated) I have two cars, One purchased a couple of weeks before we separated because I was using hers and she demanded it back and one bought 5 months after we separated - she had TWO cars, but when she filed for bankruptcy 4 months after we separated they both repossessed, she now drives a car provided by her father.

In her answer she claimed abandonment, but it was me who found them alternative accommodation - and pays for it, when she lost the house, I got both children enrolled in school, I provide transportation to and from friends houses, skate parks, the mall etc, school supplies, birthday and Christmas gifts (she became a Jehovahs Witness immediatley). She also claims I have not given her any support. She does not work, how has she been able to support them with no income if I have not been providing any? I have been putting money straight from my pay check into her account for over 5 years and have the proof. Now I have received a court date for Temporary child support. I just want it all to be over. How can I get a date for just the divorce? Isn’t temporary support ordered in instances when NO support is being paid? How can I prove the adultery so I do not have to pay alimony? She claims she cannot work, but she worked right up until I left. Help! I am paying for ALL the marital debts, plus one of the cars she had repossessed which I co-signed for. I am drowning in debt. Will the judge order alimony if I cannot afford to keep us in the style we were accustomed? I cannot even afford my own lawyer and she is also suing for her attorney fees, who seem to be dragging the process out. I really need help. I have to go out of the country for 10 days on business and am scared her lawyers will make a move while I’m gone.