Greetings. Sorry, but no. North Carolina does not have any standard visitation schedule for children (any age). Each separate matter, where the parties cannot agree about visitation, is evaluated by the judge and the best interests of the children in that situation are looked after by the judge.
Since the agree says that he will visit with the children when the parties mutually agree, his ex-wife is “technically” correct in disallowing visitation when it does not suit her.
My advice is to file for child custody and visitation. I am sure that they will be able to come to an agreement prior to trial, but it will be the only forum where he can force his ex-wife to come to the table and negotiate with him. Best of luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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