Dear grafje:
Greetings. What you need is an attorney. You are trying to get around the need by asking for help, but I have no help for you. First, we are not licensed in Wisconsin, so I have no idea what is going on. The only other thing I would suggest is maybe a Motion for Child Custody Evaluation. That would put the matter in the hands of a licensed psychologist. Best of luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
RosenDivorcecom
919-787-6668
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