Separation

How can you stop the seperation? if you are not living together then you are seperated, and why would you want to stop it? Apparently you both wanted out but since he moved on faster than you, you wanna try to disrupt his new relationship.HUMMM

i live in virginia. my husband and i are separated and we signed the papers and got them notarize on 1/14/06. but i recently found out that he has been cheating on me before we signed the papers. can i stop the separation papers?