I am sorry you are having to go through this.
Don’t move out. He will have to if he really wants a divorce.
You have to let hurtful things roll off. I know that is tough, but they don’t mean anything. Actions are the only thing that means anything.
You will be hearing all sorts of weird things.
You have to face the very likely possibility that he is having an affair. I would be willing to bet he is. Sorry to tell you that. His words about no longer loving you and not being attracted to you are classic affair words.
Tell the attorney the facts. If he or she is half way decent they will give you good advice. Remember this, you are the boss not the attorney. They work for you. They give advice, you give instructions. You are their client.
As far as property… Do not rely upon him to tell you the value of any property. Derive your own facts and figures. Suspect all information coming from him.