First of all, let me thank you for being the first to post to our new forum.
I suggest that you keep seeing the psychologist. You are getting good advice. Sounds like it is time to accept what is happening and protect yourself. The best way to start is to meet with an attorney. We would be happy to help if you are in our area (check our attorney locator page to find if you are outside of our area).
Lee S. Rosen
Board Certified Family Law Specialist
The Rosen Law Firm
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 200
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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