Last night ex calls me because our son wanted to talk to me. (son just turned 3 yrs old) Our son is wanting to talk to his siblins, phone is passed around. My son ask what I’m doing? I tell him. He says he wants to go outside, I tell him to tell daddy. He keeps saying it. I then tell him, let me talk to daddy, so I can ask him to take you outside. He wouldn’t pass the phone. He kept saying, talk to daddy.
Well I ask him if he wants to talk to Mke (my husband and the one who has been there in his life for over a year, but on a regular basis 6 months everyday). He says yes. My son is talking to him. He wants to talk to me again. I get on the phone and my son is saying he wants to play outside here and on his swing set. I tell him to give daddy the phone and I’ll ask him to take him outside.
We were going round and round with this. Ex texts me and say, "What the ****? You have him call Mike daddy? I text back saying to him, No! he calls him Mike. Ex texts back and says, Don’t ****** lie to me, I’m sitting right next to him. I text back and say, I don’t know what you are talking about, I keep telling him to put daddy on the phone because he wants to go outside. This carried on and on.
Well he said that this is going to change fast. I said What? I don’t understand what is going on? He said don’t worry about it, I will have this taken care of.
I don’t understand what is going on. I haven’t done nothing wrong.
Is it a bad thing ‘IF’ my son did call his step dad, dad?
Would I even get in trouble for that?
Is there a NC law that states that a step parent who is willing to be there for their step child, will get punished for it?
I don’t understand what happened last night. I think he was trying to show off infront of his girlfriend. He lives with her and my son is there with them. My husband didn’t live with us, until about 2 months before we got married. Which was 6-1-09. But has been in our lives for well over a year.
- If this con’t, am I able to stop my EX from sleeping over at his girlfriends house while our son is visiting him?
I know this is long, I’m so sorry for that.