Whats Right and Wrong In Divorce Cases


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Dear juniepooh:

Greetings. Wow…first, I am not sure what you mean by some of your terms and I am not sure you have given me all the facts I need to make any statements.

What is “discover” - do you mean discovery (as in interrogatories and request for production of documents)?

How long were you married?

When you say divorce proceedings, do you mean that you filed for absolute divorce or that you filed for alimony and equitable distribution.

Is your spouse still deployed?

If your husband had sex with someone other than you prior to divorce, then yes it is adultery. Yes, his mother’s actions may be enough for a claim of alienation of affection, but you would have a difficult time proving that case. Thank you.

Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
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Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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#2

My soon to be ex volunteered in 2003 to be activated, 7 months later he called and said he was filing for legal seperation to cover himself. I have just received his discover and he stated that he was having affairs since 1985. He does not want to give me anything support, etc. We are in the process of going through mediation which cost alot of monies and he doesn’t care. It took him nearly 5 months to accept the divorce proceedings and took his time to the very last day to turn over his discover papers, etc.
My question is with him taking as long as he does to respond, etc., will the court notice this?
He has had several “room mates” since we were seperated. We did not have a legal seperation as far as papers go…is this adultry? Also, his mother has always pursuaded him to leave me from the time he brought me to NC., calling me names to her “friends”. Up until he left me, she never had any kind words for me or my children. Isn’t that alienation of affection? She was adviing him to leave me from the day I moved here in 1980.
Another factor is that he is always putting me down in front of the kids we have (24 and 25) and always have his daughter call me to find out what is happening with me and to ask me questions for him.
Can you enlighten me on any of the above? Any answers will be greatly appreciated.