Greetings. You should send your spouse a letter that says he cannot move back in or you will consider it domestic criminal trespass and file charges for the same.
Now, you are going to tell me “Wow, that is harsh” - yes, but it will be more harsh for you if you don’t tell him and he moves back in.
As far as attorneys getting bogged down in “he said/she said” - you just need to hire the right attorneys. If you proceed with the collaborative process, the past will not matter as much as the future. The collaborative process focuses on resolutions to problems, not the problems themselves. Best of luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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