We married them yes, we did we change they change, the only problem is the perception of the law does not change to reflect what is going on… Favortisim is on the side of the woman, maybe the law is fair but perception generally male is the provider female is provided for.
Truth is to be held and justice is to be served with the law but one must get the truth to the court, that is where the problem is does anyone ever wonder why most all divorce cases are settled ? Lets see
Contributions to the marriage: how is that determined…
Obligations to children : (we have guidelines I thought) verification of income: who checks more than a week at a time.
Contributions to children: now thats a joke in my case (but, it is all my fault so they say )!!!
Adultrey: just the statement and your percieved guilty.
Dependant spouse: She works 40 I work 80 naturally I make more
(try working 80 too and then you can say you contributed equally to the marriage !)
Abuse: again just the statment.
Maritial Debt: how many men take all maritial debt?
( maybe I did get the property did anyone ever put the true values assigned to the property)
Just one example
Our vehical was valued at 10,000.00 wait the appraisal said 23,0000.00 but, we owed 29,000.00) Hmmmmm Oh by the way attorney
I’ m not going to sign this until it is correct and the values are assigned corectly GEUSS WHAT THEN YOU THE CLIENT IS NOT COOROPRATING with your attorney and I the attorney can just consent to this for you ! we will fix it later ! LOL
Lets face it just the accusations of any of the indignities in a complaint the court makes one ruleing and it’s down hill from there for the rest of your life …
SoccerMom : I understand your concern for your childs saftey but, let me ask did your husband shoot guns and handle dead animals prior to the divorce? If so maybe its a part of him he wants to share with his child (just a thought)
ARTHURP : The court is not willing to do the hard right and speak to the children heck our attorneys are to present the facts to the courts… What a joke and it is also a shame of how much damage is done to the children when we both change … But what reallly matters is who lies the most cuz the facts are irrelivant. Just my thoughts anyways
Disbelief in the system