Dear Fed UP:
First, I want you to know that you have some options. You should not move out until after you speak with an attorney and decide that is the best option for you. You may also want to seek the assistance of a private investigator since I agree with you that there may be someone else.
Since this is the emotional section of our forum, I would like to offer an idea. Why not go out and buy yourself new clothes? Go workout every day. Begin to appreciate yourself for the strong backbone of the family which it appears to me that you are. Make him think twice about what he is doing! Best of luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney at Law
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 200
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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