Last week I sent a letter to the woman my husband was having an affair with. The letter was non threatening in that I did not threaten to harm her physically. I did let her know I was reserving the right to pursue any legal action that may be available to me. I also let her know I would contact her husband to inform him of the affair as it is my belief he has the right to know what is occurring in his marriage. I never did contact him nor did I contact her again.
Today I was contacted by the woman’s husband. He was very polite, and very amiable towards me.
He has requested we all (me, my husband, him, and his wife) meet in the presence of our respective attorneys to “air things out”. I do not have an attorney, but agreed to let his attorney call me. I don’t have to agree to a meeting or anything. As I see it, I am the one with the upper hand, so to speak. I cannot fathom why he would want to meet with an attorney present unless they are both afraid of me filing suit against her.
Do I need an attorney for a meeting like this?