I married her twice. Once in Alamance County, next in Lenoir County (both legal, I guess). I thought I was divorced back in 1999. I don’t remember signing any paper about a divorce. She is re-married as we speak. I don’t want her back but… HUMMMMM…
You can check court files in the counties were she lived and where you lived back in 1999 for a record of the divorce.