Greetings. I am sorry that you are dealing with someone who has such a problem dealing with their anger. No, you have not done anything wrong or close to parent kidnapping. In the future, do not schedule appointments during his time, no matter what.
Send him the information on offering “make up time” again by e-mail or written correspondence (keeping a copy).
My advice to people in similiar situations (with unreasonable and angry spouses) is to follow the order to the letter. Never deviate, unless there is an emergency. Keep your head up, because sooner or later he will find someone else to bully through life! Best of luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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