Oh, I would like to know the answer to that, especially about the non custodial parent having their info on school records and access to their child’s school records. My husband knows NOTHING about what goes on in his children’s school lives. They won’t tell him. Any time there is homework to do, he helps them with it, but otherwise, he knows nothing. The ONLY comment about school in the divorce decree is a statement saying he would not pick the children up from school without a written note of consent from their mother (as if he would try to kidnap them or something…I mean really… He would like to contact the school about certain things, but is afraid they will refuse to tell him, just based on verbal request from his ex–although there is NOTHING in writing, no order banning him from access to this.