I am scared to file divorce myself. It is a a simple divorce. I got a protection order against my soon to be ex husband in October because he came to my house to try and kill me. He also threatened to kill himself about a half dozen times to get me to agree to an earlier separation date.
Is it safe for me to file divorce pro se??? I am just scared if he comes to court what might happen.
When you go to court, you should inform the sheriff’s deputy that there is a protective order in place in the event he does show up. The deputy should keep the parties separated and allow you to leave in advance to keep your distance.
Just as Kathleen suggested you can inform the Sheriff in the courtroom (arrive early to do that) .
Another option is to contact the victim advocate in your court house, he/she will make arrangements to make sure your safe as well & will possibly sit with you in an area that your EX cannot access if he shows up. Call your local court house and ask who to the victim advocate is & they will give you information.
** ALSO ** Your Victim Advocate is a good source for legal advice and referral.