I know that you may not believe this right now. But only time and prayer heal all wounds. I’ve been through the same thing and it’s been 5 years since I have been alone. Some days have been good and others have been bad, but that’s just life. One thing that I can tell you is that “trouble don’t last always.” Now is a good time to focus on you. You’ll soon realize that the pain will subside and that hapiness comes from within. If you don’t have one, seek refuge in a Higher Power. Fix yourself up…Make your self look more attractive, and do it for yourself. If you don’t feel good about yourself, then he won’t feel good about you either. I don’t know if you want your husband back or not, but if you do want to keep him, you have to search deep within yourself to find out if that is what you truly want and seek counseling. Please don’t get into a rut. On the other side (single, Life is not bad at all!
I have been doing a lot of thinking and have decided that the only thing I can do is let God have His way. I can’t make my husband do anything, if that was the case the garbage would have always been taken out, and socks would always find the way to the hamper(but that’s another story). I would like for my marriage to be salvaged. I guess I will just go one minute at a time and wait and see what happens.
WOW how exciting![:(]
I found out recently that my husband of 8 yrs has been having an affair. He continues to see her even though he said he wouldn’t. He gives her the attention that I have so desired for years, yet he tells me that it was nothing that I have done and that he doesn’t know why he did it. I just don’t know what to do. One minute I want to hurt him because I am so angry and the next minute I can’t stop crying because I am so hurt. How do I make this pain in my chest go away?