Greetings. First, I do not normally read such long posts, but once I started I could not stop. I kept thinking that at some point I was going to see where he had retained an attorney, but lo and behold…I never saw that statement. So, I am going to tell you that OF COURSE he is getting hammered in the court system. He does not have an attorney to help him.
My advice is that he and his loving family scrambles to obtain attorney fees and immediately set an alimony hearing (which will end the PSS because her cheating will come out). He also needs to set child custody for the same day (which he can do as the child custody of the district court can modify the domestic violence restraining order).
Your son must stop acting like a rug, hire an attorney, and start getting what is rightfully due to him. Thank you.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
919.787.6668 main phone
919.256.1665 direct fax
10925 David Taylor Drive, Suite 100
Charlotte, North Carolina 28262
704.644.2831 main voice
704.307.4595 main fax
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